What will make a married man cheat on his wife?
This one is the most obvious. The relationship is struggling. There is no genuine connection; the couple is together for the sake of the kids or convenience. Often, physical intimacy is no longer present.
Sometimes, someone who cheats in a struggling relationship has a hard time communicating their feelings. Or maybe they have spoken up but feel their partner did not listen. He may use cheating as a way to deal with his anger.
Suppose people aren’t getting their intimacy needs met in a relationship, and along comes Sally or Sam, a coworker who suddenly starts listening to your partner. In that case, it is like drinking water when you are severely hydrated.
Sometimes it is a way to cope with hopelessness in a relationship. They may use cheating as a coping mechanism to deal with hurt feelings. Or they may use cheating subconsciously as a last-ditch effort to get their partner to listen to them.
All of these things are unhealthy ways of coping with an unhappy relationship, and I always aim to help the cheating partner find better ways to deal with wounds they feel from the relationship.
I often try to help them see that cheating makes a struggling relationship go from bad to worse. Cheating is a self-destructive cycle that needs to be examined and is often reflected in a person’s pattern of dealing with negative emotions. Learning that you can grow during hardship, rather than resorting to destructive behaviors, is a goal for these individuals.
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