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When Size Meets Insecurity: Can Love Still Win?

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Details I (32 M) have been dating this amazing girl (31F) for 5 months. It’s embarrassing to admit but I have a micro penis, it’s just shy of 3” when hard. My self esteem and confidence related to my penis have really impacted my dating life, my current gf is only the 2nd sexual partner I have had. After dating a couple weeks I told her I wanted to take it slow, she agreed. Last week I told her I had a small penis and that’s why I wanted to take it slow, she told me she didn’t care about the size of my penis, but we’ll go at what ever pace I’m comfortable at. But, do girls really do tell their friends about their sex lives. Best advice Just go ahead and have sex. Your small penis could actually be a huge plus for her . Guys with huge dicks often think it is enough to be big to satisfy her, you need to take a lot of extra care to really satisfy her. I bet that is WAY more important to her than the dick size. Also big dicks can hurt, especially with mediocre foreplay. Update So, on the w...

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https://old.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1sywwus/partner_wants_to_be_tied_up_with_rope/ What your partner is asking for falls under light bondage, and the focus should be on safety, comfort, and clear communication.  You do not need anything complicated, simple restraints or basic knots are enough if done properly.  The key rule is that circulation should never be cut off, so you should always be able to slip a finger between the rope and the skin.  It is also important to agree on a safe word or signal so he can stop things instantly if needed.  Positioning matters too, keep him in a stable position where his breathing and movement are not restricted. Start simple like tying wrists loosely to a bedframe or using soft materials rather than jumping into complex setups. Take it slow the first time and treat it like learning rather than trying to get it perfect. Check in with him during and after to see what felt good and what did not.  If you both enjoy it, you can g...