Tichaz Stories

Sex doesn’t always stimulate the clitoris,  especially if your clitoris is smaller or further from your vagina , so you may think that you’ve been unable to orgasm. But at least one study suggests that learning more about the clitoris can help a woman orgasm for the more easily during masturbation and once you know how to easily orgasm during masturbation, we believe it can become easier during sex. I advise most women to concentrate on this area when they first start figuring out how to orgasm, while also paying some attention to the labia, which are the folds of skin on either side of your vagina on the outside. When you are stimulating your clit, you’ll find that you can get most pleasure by rubbing it from the ‘1 o’clock position’ if you imagined it to be a clock. The ‘one o’clock’ position is the upper left area of your clitoris, so it’s easiest to stimulate with your left hand. Experiment with applying different amounts of pressure to it to see what you enjoy the most. Th...

Many people worry that the sperm that’s ejaculated during sex will somehow affect their growing baby, or that they’ll injure their baby by having sex. One survey  showed that 80% of men were worried they’d injure their future child from penetrating the mother. If that’s how you’re currently feeling, you can take a deep sigh of relief. Semen and sperm deposited in the vagina during penetrative vaginal sex will not harm the baby. Most of it will simply be discharged from the body through the vaginal opening. Thanks to the placenta, amniotic sac, and mucus plug covering the cervix, your baby has a protection system that’s very specific about what goes in and stays out! In addition to blocking sperm, your growing baby is protected from coming into contact with your partner’s penis — no matter how deep it may go. Along with being able to relax about where your sperm is going in a low risk pregnancy, you may be relieved to know that it’s highly unlikely for a pregnant woman to conceive a...

This one is the most obvious. The relationship is struggling. There is no genuine connection; the couple is together for the sake of the kids or convenience. Often, physical intimacy is no longer present. Sometimes, someone who cheats in a struggling relationship has a hard time communicating their feelings. Or maybe they have spoken up but feel their partner did not listen. He may use cheating as a way to deal with his anger. Suppose people aren’t getting their intimacy needs met in a relationship, and along comes Sally or Sam, a coworker who suddenly starts listening to your partner. In that case, it is like drinking water when you are severely hydrated. Sometimes it is a way to cope with hopelessness in a relationship. They may use cheating as a coping mechanism to deal with hurt feelings. Or they may use cheating subconsciously as a last-ditch effort to get their partner to listen to them. All of these things are unhealthy ways of coping with an unhappy relationship, and I always a...

Building a city takes decades of labor and endless consensus. Vaporizing it takes a single order, a fraction of a second, and absolutely no one's permission. The human measurement of power is deeply tied to the laws of entropy. Destruction is the ultimate display of absolute control because it is entirely unilateral. Creation is a cooperative act—it requires architects, laborers, supply chains, and political will. Wiping out the sum of thousands of human lifetimes of work with the push of a button proves that one entity's momentary whim supersedes the collective effort of millions. This asymmetry is reinforced by evolutionary psychology, which wires the brain to prioritize threat detection over reward. A leader who builds infrastructure earns gratitude, an emotion that quickly fades into baseline expectation. A leader who can vaporize a city commands existential terror. Gratitude allows for dissent; terror commands immediate, overriding compliance. The dread of total destructio...