Pavlov’s Dick is why you should change positions to last long.

Details

I had a girlfriend that put on bright red lipstick every time she gave me a blowjob. She liked giving, so this happened fairly regularly. As the months passed, I noticed that as soon as I saw her appear in red lipstick I would start to get aroused. 

Over time, I was completely erect the moment I saw her in red lipstick. So here’s where it gets fucked up. One day her friend shows up at the gym while I’m working out and she’s wearing the same lipstick, and I immediately get hard (gym shorts, very obvious). Her friend asks why I have an erection and I honestly don’t know. 

Later that night, my girlfriend asks why I got an erection when I saw her friend at the gym. She then tells me that they both watched the episode of The Office where Jim conditions Dwight with mints and decided to try it out on me. 

Kind of funny, but also, my brain has literally been re-wired to the point that I get hard any time I see red lipstick so...fuck Pavlov.

Advice

Scratching an itch requires a little bit of rhythm. You’ve got to get the right speed and hit the right spot to find relief. Orgasms aren’t so different. And those who want to last longer might need to disrupt the tempo. Changing sex positions is a fine source of distraction. 

The more unfamiliar, the better. It’s much harder for the body to orgasm in a position that it hasn’t orgasmed in before. If you usually orgasm lying down then it might take you longer to reach orgasm standing up. 

This is due to proprioception, or the way your body understands its position in space and which muscles to rely on, . Switching positions or sex acts can be a great way to keep the party going while giving your body time to switch focuses. 

Anyway, in guide number 17 from the Reads For MEN guides, I talk about Mastering Male Ejaculation Control, but if you have the opposite problem then in guide number 34 from the ALL Reads I talk about Using the Trigger Method to Cum Quickly.