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11 Dec 2025 Lead Her Through the Action Some of the guys who are the most vocal about being dominant in bed also go at it completely wrong. Especially if they call themselves alphas. Those guys are more usually more demanding than dominant. They’re pushy. They’re entitled. They don’t take boundaries or consent very seriously. They kind of treat women like submissive sex dolls - and not in the good way. That’s a recipe for horrible sex. It won’t make anyone feel safe, cared for, or protected. It’s just going to make them regret going through with it. If you want to excite your partner’s submissive side, that’s the wrong way to do it. Instead, just take the lead when you’re fucking. That means giving her things you know she loves, instead of waiting for her to ask for them. It means taking her feedback seriously and working with it. You do it by proposing things to her and telling her what position you want her in. Not with bossy commands, but with playful suggestions. P...